Argonath RPG Police Department

General => Leaving => Topic started by: Bianconeri on September 23, 2009, 16:20:23 pm

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Post by: Bianconeri on September 23, 2009, 16:20:23 pm
''A game is there for the fun, is the fun gone then the game is gone also, else its an addiction''

as some already heard from me personally, and some saw it on msn or at my signature
im pretty much on the edge of leaving Argonath, forever

im already playing San Andreas since the first summer that it came out, lots of time ago that was
always have been playing it with a lot of fun,
and i started MP, Argonath,
right from the first day i became a cop, 1,5-2 years ago already
had lots of fun, gave lots of hours every day to Argonath
which partly screwed my social life and school

but i had fun in it and thats all i cared about

but since the last months that fun is really gone,
got annoyed by abusing freecops, all the rulebreaking
got also really annoyed by a dumb rule(probably made by ara or gandalf)
that you can suspect rulebreakers, which is the same as encouraging to continue
and also some promotions were in my eyes far from correct,
but i didnt care because thats not my bussines



im now working for Academy for 9 months already, training lots of cadets/freecops,
doing exams and all, i become Moderator/sort of co-leader
i did everything for the Academy myself,
trained a lot of ppl, giving hours each day for it,
but now they decided to destroy the academy.... all my work in it....
a big waste of time

also since a month now or so moderating Applications,
helping lots of freecops/cadets and all
great work that is

but all i heard about all the hours in all the work i did was complaining,
you do this wrong, and this and that, do it better!!
nobody appriciated anything i did, 1,5-2 years fully for ARPD,
no appriciation at all........

the only thing that kept me going was the freecops and cadets(and some officer which i trained)
THEY! are the real good ppl inside the ARPD,they are the ones with the respect,
they make it all fun
compared to officer and up who only complain about everything you do(except a few)

the last years i heard lots of complaints on me, but i went on with it, i had fun in it
but now its all just to far.....

i even talked with this on MSN with pancher, that i was almost leaving,
at the first he tried to talk it all good, but i dont believe that crap.....

i told i was tired of all the complaints, and you know what he said after that?
oh bian you did this wrong, how about disrespecting a very loyal member?
how about trying to get me to leave?
i always had respect for him, and i liked him, but this was to far for me,
after he said that all i did was: ''i heard enough'' and i left

im mostly only tired of the ARPD stuff, the disrespecting and all,
but im to loyal for the ARPD to just go to the criminals,
thats not how im, i gave everything for the ARPD
as we dutchies got a saying ''stank voor dank'' (like giving shit for hard work you did)

a few ppl tried to talk me in Argonath again, but for the moment i dont feel any appriciation,
and not the fun i need

at this moment i want to put all my time into my social life, into school, into other things i think is important,
and as most important my hopefully girlfriend, which i really really like

im not resigning, but just being inactive for now,
i have been here so long that i cant just leave,
so i hope the fun gets back in the coming time,
if the fun isnt back, then i resign and leave

no fun
no respect
no appriciation

but only hate against me
only disrespect against me
only complaints on my work
(a few exceptions)
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Post by: Thomas_Crof on September 23, 2009, 16:26:40 pm
You know how I think about it... People tend to moan at things going wrong, but forget to say what you're doing right!
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Post by: Bianconeri on September 23, 2009, 16:35:28 pm
i do,
and thats what i have been doing for 2 years already,
accept all that moaning,but enough is enough,
together with all other things combined, is enough to make me leave almost

''you do it good''

yeah thats what i hear from everyone, AFTER i announced this,
now everyone says im good, but where were all that ppl before then?
only acting like im good so that i dont leave,
and when im back, its all the goddamn old story again
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Post by: Janar on September 23, 2009, 16:42:10 pm
Oh my god...
Do not resign or leave us!
I have respected you always!
You gave me great advice some days ago about IRL!
Just don't leave!!  :(
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Post by: RoryAnstruther on September 23, 2009, 16:52:48 pm
One thing you have to realize about real life and especially police work - If you hear nothing at all, and nothing good, then you're doing everything correctly and doing good at it. We all recognize what you do and appreciate it, but just remember, if you don't hear anything then you're doing your job!
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Post by: Bianconeri on September 23, 2009, 16:59:13 pm
i know Rory,
but i only hear bad, and if i give everything to the work i still expect some appriciation
instead of not saying anything, doesnt have to be often, but never anything good in heading to 2 years?

and also my work is seen good by a lot of ppl,
examples enough, one i can give is: swat, even officer became member of swat,
even though i was lt. doesnt a higher rank mean im better?
then why arent they higher ranked as me? since apperently they are good enough,
and im not

more things like that exist

and indeed Janar, we talked about RL good couple of days ago,
but that has nothing to do with Argonath, sadly

its nice to hear this thing for ppl,
but as i said before: its all afterwards, before that you never hear from any of them

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Post by: jemerson on September 23, 2009, 17:07:46 pm
I know, its hard. As others have left saying the same, its not only in ARPD or Police work, its in life. Problem is we are a big organization, not everyone gets awarded for their work. What keeps me going is knowing I am doing good to my community and that somewhere down the line I will recieve some type of compensation for it, wheter it be through writing or rank. You sir are a Sgt. and your rank shows that you are appricated. Thats the best I can say

Inregards to the rulebreakers/freecops I agree, at least we can suspect them if needed ay? =]
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Post by: Bianconeri on September 23, 2009, 17:11:52 pm
i know my rank shows some sort of appriciation

but when i look how easy it is to become Sergeant this days,
then i dont see Sgt. as special anymore
partly proud on it though,but it feels so normal now, been a Sergeant since december 2008...


suspecting rulebreakers is the same as saying:
good work in rulebreaking, continue with it
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Post by: jemerson on September 23, 2009, 17:13:45 pm
I don't see Sgt has a easy rank to get, I did see Lt as that before the closure of SAID. I have not reassesed the new Lt's yet so I can't say my original opinion holds true.
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Post by: [R*]Pancher on September 23, 2009, 17:25:28 pm
Why would we give you more responsibility if we think you do a bad job?
Why have we promoted you under these 2 years you been with us?
Why have you recived medals for your job you have done and still do?

Cos you done a bad job? I guess not..

Yes, i'm very bad to tell people how good job they do and how much i appreciate the work they do.. But as Rory say, "If you hear nothing at all, and nothing good, then you're doing everything correctly and doing good at it.", by quote that i would like to note that you should think from who you get the complaint from, but you should also be able to accept complaints so you know how you can develope to be better.

but when i look how easy it is to become Sergeant this days,
We have at this time around 11 Sergeants of around 80 SAPD employess withiut counting the members with rank above.. I don't think it's that easy to become an sergeant..
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Post by: Sarah Pallory 'Jones' on September 23, 2009, 17:35:49 pm
Well, bianconeri's job has been amazing.

Good luck RL bian!
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Post by: jemerson on September 23, 2009, 17:37:44 pm
So to confirm this is not a resignation?
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Post by: Altair_Carter on September 23, 2009, 17:53:48 pm
People tend to moan at things going wrong, but forget to say what you're doing right!
You know.....My teacher at school used to tell me about my other classmate, who was a prick towards whole school "People will always forget about hell of a lot of your good things you made, and will always keep close to heart what bad thing you've done for once..."

Bianconeri, just keep yourself out of the asses, which try to tell you're doing something wrong. If you really don't think you're doing something bad/wrong, why keep bothering to listen? Do what you think is right to do.
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Post by: Bianconeri on September 23, 2009, 19:20:37 pm
im not resigning, but just being inactive for now,
i have been here so long that i cant just leave,
so i hope the fun gets back in the coming time,
if the fun isnt back, then i resign and leave



thats for you Jemerson,

yes i know i have been given much responsbility, but in the begin i really appriciated this and i still do,
but i got more the feeling that you have given that moderating to me because nobody else wanted
and im just the best option left, although not first choice
since normally capt or so would, or else at least LT. and all i hear about it is complaints

about the medals, with all respect, im proud of them,
but i mostly got that metorious service medal,
which is just given to everyone and has no value at all, its just being active and thats it

and now you say:'
''you must be able to handle with complaints and accept them''

this is exactly what i have done for the whole 2 years, but most complaints are just based on nothing,
and i can have a lot of crap against me, but 2 whole years?
no ty, a game isnt important enough to take all that crap

well with all respect to all Sergeants and also up, some are really not ready for that rank,
not done much and not long around also,
im already here for almost 2 years, i know the law point by point, i can dream about any code

also about that Altair, given answer on that a bit up, i mostly ignored all that asses you talk about,
but im not willing to get that for over 2 years, i got a line in that, which has been crossed


i got much and really much more respect for freecops and cadets then for all ranks above, including Chiefs
freecops/cadets know to appriciate everything you do for them, they are happy with you,
they dont complain at you, and thats much for i can say then all other ranks

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Post by: [Rstar]Vince on September 23, 2009, 19:31:32 pm
You come here and moan, say how "easy" it is to become a Sergeant, say you're going inactive, but you're not resigning? I don't get it.. :roll:
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Post by: [R*]Austin on September 23, 2009, 19:33:59 pm
There are a few things i want to say...

Before always blaming others that react lame to you or any other kind of way... Always consider your own actions first..

And not everyone is disrespecting.. flaming you.. Far from that...

And i dont see how the rule "can suspect rulebreakers" affects your mood.... :S

And in addition... Dont pay to much attention on the abusing freecops... that know it all themself... We can only try to learn them the police procedures..
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Post by: Bianconeri on September 23, 2009, 19:50:21 pm
far from that Austin? not really, how much ppl actually like me?
i think you dont even need 1 finger to count that

why it affects my mood?
cause i hate it that they encourage rulebreaking,
you reward there rulebreaking with suspect, exactly what they want

it pisses me off that the ppl are to dumb to see that

is it impossble to be inactive without resigning? well i see lots of ppl being active without resigning,
and Vince please...
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Post by: [Rstar]Vince on September 23, 2009, 20:03:07 pm
HUH?
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Post by: [R*]Austin on September 23, 2009, 20:28:08 pm
Ofcourse the suspect does encourage him. But your a sergeant, talk to me.. CB or Pancher about it... Take initiatives yourself! You should be the one to change it, your in a position where you can bring such things up for discussion, that shouldnt be stated in an on leave topic... Thats the wrong method...

And for the things about you dont have any friends here. Your the one that can change that... But you wont keep/get friends when you are like in this topic...
Its almost looks like your depressed or something...

Go on the server, be happy... It will help alot... Not only yourself, also the way people treath you... Threat people how you want to be threated. A joke from time to time makes things lose up... And increases fun. Joking from time to time is not a crime.
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Post by: James_Stone on September 23, 2009, 20:32:00 pm
I'm just wondering why everyone is Bi-Polar..
Bianconeri, I respect you. I think you're an exceptional Sergeant! I appreciate your work. Don't quit out on us. We need all the help we can get to keep the ARPD alive. It's the only thing keeping Argonath alive, and quite frankly with everyone quitting we can't afford to loose the good bunch of people we need.
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Post by: Bianconeri on September 23, 2009, 20:45:58 pm
Austin  already did that at the topic at police procedures,
they understood my point but it wont change....

im depressed in argo,  make fun? i dont have fun in it anymore
thats why this came

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Post by: Thomas_Crof on September 23, 2009, 20:49:00 pm
far from that Austin? not really, how much ppl actually like me?
i think you dont even need 1 finger to count that

You got a large finger then mate... Plenty of guys like you, they just don't show it all day long (nothing odd though)..
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Post by: James_Stone on September 23, 2009, 20:54:09 pm
Don't leave please.
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Post by: Deuce on September 23, 2009, 21:11:28 pm
COOL, ANOTHER TOPIC WHERE ONE PERSON TRY TO CHANGE STUFF BY SAYING THAT THEY'RE LEAVING!!!!1111
So f**king original.

If you haven't realized, Murderboy, one person's topic, issue, problems, etc. isn't going to change anything. And what sort of 'fun' are you talking about? Whatever it is, you won't be getting it 'back' soon - I can assure you that. If you're depressed because of a gaming society, you need immediate attention from a therapist. I'm not kidding.
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Post by: Oliver Daniels on September 23, 2009, 21:37:07 pm
COOL, ANOTHER TOPIC WHERE ONE PERSON TRY TO CHANGE STUFF BY SAYING THAT THEY'RE LEAVING!!!!1111
So f**king original.

If you haven't realized, Murderboy, one person's topic, issue, problems, etc. isn't going to change anything. And what sort of 'fun' are you talking about? Whatever it is, you won't be getting it 'back' soon - I can assure you that. If you're depressed because of a gaming society, you need immediate attention from a therapist. I'm not kidding.
I agree
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Post by: Wayne on September 23, 2009, 21:39:30 pm
COOL, ANOTHER TOPIC WHERE ONE PERSON TRY TO CHANGE STUFF BY SAYING THAT THEY'RE LEAVING!!!!1111
So f**king original.

If you haven't realized, Murderboy, one person's topic, issue, problems, etc. isn't going to change anything. And what sort of 'fun' are you talking about? Whatever it is, you won't be getting it 'back' soon - I can assure you that. If you're depressed because of a gaming society, you need immediate attention from a therapist. I'm not kidding.
Gotta agree this. But, maybe too agressive?
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Post by: [R*]Austin on September 24, 2009, 09:45:58 am
COOL, ANOTHER TOPIC WHERE ONE PERSON TRY TO CHANGE STUFF BY SAYING THAT THEY'RE LEAVING!!!!1111
So f**king original.

If you haven't realized, Murderboy, one person's topic, issue, problems, etc. isn't going to change anything. And what sort of 'fun' are you talking about? Whatever it is, you won't be getting it 'back' soon - I can assure you that. If you're depressed because of a gaming society, you need immediate attention from a therapist. I'm not kidding.

Why add a therapist to this? And dont you mean a psychiatrist?


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Post by: Rabbit on September 24, 2009, 13:24:46 pm
Bian, you can't wait for the fun to you, you have to make it fun, produce that level of gaming nobody else can. Join a police group... SACS/SASD uses Ventrilo for communication.. I'm sure that would be fun to you.

As for Ranks go.. I don't care about my rank. To me it is only a patch on my sleeve. We are all level and equal out there. We are doing the same job that HAS to be done. And.. you're mad because the Lieutenants from SAID were made permanent Lieutenants... can't say I don't agree with you there, considering one of them is extremely annoying on our Ventrilo. But you have to look passed all that I guess and just move on.

You will only hear bad things about you, because that's all that is worth mentioning. When you hear things like that, just say to yourself, "Hey, I should definitely work on my techniques and build a better procedure in that area." Just don't look at it like people are trying to chop you down.

(( I'm off to work, after posting this mindless ramble. When I get home I won't remember posting this.. oh god.. ))

Signed,
Robert Roto
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Post by: James_Stone on September 24, 2009, 17:31:12 pm
COOL, ANOTHER TOPIC WHERE ONE PERSON TRY TO CHANGE STUFF BY SAYING THAT THEY'RE LEAVING!!!!1111
So f**king original.

If you haven't realized, Murderboy, one person's topic, issue, problems, etc. isn't going to change anything. And what sort of 'fun' are you talking about? Whatever it is, you won't be getting it 'back' soon - I can assure you that. If you're depressed because of a gaming society, you need immediate attention from a therapist. I'm not kidding.

Why add a therapist to this? And dont you mean a psychiatrist?





Lol I just noticed something when you separate the word Therapist it says The Rapist XD.
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Post by: Bianconeri on September 24, 2009, 19:24:18 pm
COOL, ANOTHER TOPIC WHERE ONE PERSON TRY TO CHANGE STUFF BY SAYING THAT THEY'RE LEAVING!!!!1111
So f**king original.

If you haven't realized, Murderboy, one person's topic, issue, problems, etc. isn't going to change anything. And what sort of 'fun' are you talking about? Whatever it is, you won't be getting it 'back' soon - I can assure you that. If you're depressed because of a gaming society, you need immediate attention from a therapist. I'm not kidding.

shut it Cane, this is NOT a topic where i try to change this,
im not having any fun at the server anymore, yes im leaving soon if i dont find the fun
what sort of fun? if you dont even know what fun is, try to google it or o

and RL is going better then it has been,im enjoying school and got awesome friends,
a girl i hang around with a lot, and i really like here
so no im not depressed, far from, only the game makes me depressed,well maybe a to big word for it

if someone of us needs a therapist, then it isnt me but you, accusing ppl with strange things
same goes for Oliver
ever tried to luck into the good things of ppl instead of only pointing the bad point and flame about it?
both of you arent new into that

and Rabbit i know that i have to make the fun, but i cant find anything i think is fun anymore,
thinks i had fun with before arent fun anymore

that you guys dont believe that im about to leave, then not my problem!
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Post by: jemerson on September 24, 2009, 20:46:07 pm
Bian, you can't wait for the fun to you, you have to make it fun, produce that level of gaming nobody else can. Join a police group... SACS/SASD uses Ventrilo for communication.. I'm sure that would be fun to you.

As for Ranks go.. I don't care about my rank. To me it is only a patch on my sleeve. We are all level and equal out there. We are doing the same job that HAS to be done. And.. you're mad because the Lieutenants from SAID were made permanent Lieutenants... can't say I don't agree with you there, considering one of them is extremely annoying on our Ventrilo. But you have to look passed all that I guess and just move on.

You will only hear bad things about you, because that's all that is worth mentioning. When you hear things like that, just say to yourself, "Hey, I should definitely work on my techniques and build a better procedure in that area." Just don't look at it like people are trying to chop you down.

(( I'm off to work, after posting this mindless ramble. When I get home I won't remember posting this.. oh god.. ))

Signed,
Robert Roto
Syn was about to leave and he joined our group, now he can't see anyother way of playing.
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Post by: [Rstar]Vince on September 24, 2009, 22:32:31 pm
Bian I'm just putting this out there but make sure you know what you're saying when you post it, if you don't know how to respond to a comment such as Cane's like that don't. Because especially if you don't make sense the aggressor can easily turn that around on you and use it as an even worse come back..
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Post by: Carbon on September 24, 2009, 22:40:47 pm
You're good guy Bianconery. Remember old times when we were choosing your name?  :rofl:

Dude, don't leave - and try to visit us sometimes if you're inactive.
You got lot of respect !  ;)
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Post by: Bianconeri on September 25, 2009, 08:53:27 am
i know Vince, and well thats just how Cane and Oliver are,
they always complain about everything, and always have to say something bad
they are not worth to get angry
look at Flames topic, also Cane has to flame and complain there again,
Cane is a [fill in yourself']

and yeah i remember Carbon  ;)

and inactive means that you will be on,but very rare in my case at least,
so you will see me around, if you are on in that 1 hour i play a week(this week 0, but will get more)
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Post by: Oliver Daniels on September 27, 2009, 15:15:50 pm
i know Vince, and well thats just how Cane and Oliver are,
they always complain about everything, and always have to say something bad

no u murderboy

Anyways, Cane spammed me on MSN and forced me to post that comment. I did it so he would shut up.
Your topic is tl;dr anyways

Cane is a [fill in yourself']
rice eater?
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Post by: Deuce on September 27, 2009, 19:12:12 pm
ikr.

so no im not depressed, far from, only the game makes me depressed,well maybe a to big word for it

if someone of us needs a therapist, then it isnt me but you

LOL HYPOCRACY MUCH??
If a video game / gaming community makes you depressed, something is very, very wrong. Really.

i know Vince, and well thats just how Cane and Oliver are,
they always complain about everything, and always have to say something bad
they are not worth to get angry
look at Flames topic, also Cane has to flame and complain there again,
Cane is a [fill in yourself']

You don't know jack shit about me, murderboy. Unlike you, I stand up for my opinions and views, instead of agreeing with everyone else's just to look like the 'good guy'. I always "have to say something bad" because I usually say things that are true; you just deny it with nonsense and try to contradict me with your so-called 'logic'.

and inactive means that you will be on,but very rare in my case at least,
so you will see me around, if you are on in that 1 hour i play a week(this week 0, but will get more)

So, in the end, this topic is totally useless; just another one of those "I think I'm gonna leave guys, post here so I don't have to." topics.

(http://www.argonathrpg.eu/forum/Themes/default/images/warnwarn.gif)  Meanie
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Post by: jemerson on September 27, 2009, 19:21:58 pm
If you hate us so much why do you sit here and troll the threads? Just please go/me shows Cane the door
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Post by: Deuce on September 28, 2009, 05:58:33 am
If you hate us so much why do you sit here and troll the threads? Just please go/me shows Cane the door
Where the flying f**k did you get the "us" part from?
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Post by: Thomas_Crof on September 28, 2009, 16:59:16 pm
Drop the arguement... BOTH of you!
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Post by: Lionel Valdes on September 30, 2009, 21:47:12 pm
you should take care of your school , learn good , maybe your parents will let you pay on this  game and you will not go to school one day   ;)
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Post by: Bianconeri on October 02, 2009, 13:47:44 pm
uhmm arnold this has nothing to do with anything,
i stopped playing by myself, not forced by anything


 :ps: you know as much as me that im not someone that agrees with everyones opinion cane
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Post by: EdwardC on October 02, 2009, 13:53:32 pm
you should take care of your school , learn good , maybe your parents will let you pay on this  game and you will not go to school one day   ;)
Offtopic : I Just Love ur Comments.


On Topic : Bian, u really don't know how much respect we all have for u, u were the one to Train me. I Still remember the Training we did together.

To All Who Don't want to Say Good Things. Don't Post.
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Post by: Oliver Daniels on October 02, 2009, 23:06:25 pm
To All Who Don't want to Say Good Things. Don't Post.

That's like saying:

"My actions are open for discussion but only post if you have something good to say about them."
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Post by: Martin_Fidgerald on October 03, 2009, 17:48:25 pm
Bian for me you example of great ARPD member... Dont f**king leave us =(((((
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Post by: Chief J. Schappell on October 08, 2009, 19:43:27 pm
Bian, do what I recently told Eddie/Lance/Roger... If something bad is happening that makes you hate how things are, try to fix it instead of complain! It'll give you something to work towards with a passion, and it'll eventually solve the problem, not to mention make you a much happier person in the end! :cop:
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Post by: Bianconeri on October 08, 2009, 19:58:24 pm
well thats sadly pretty much impossible Sugar, im not in the position that i change rules and whatever more
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Post by: [R*]Austin on October 08, 2009, 23:35:28 pm
well thats sadly pretty much impossible Sugar, im not in the position that i change rules and whatever more

Show some discipline.
Show ambition.

Everything is possible... Write something to one of us we will sure be listening to it, but always have valid arguments and always brainstorm why you should/shouldnt do something...
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Post by: Bianconeri on October 10, 2009, 10:13:08 am
i already did Austin, not towards one of you, but in public here
also i got discipline and ambition

nope, not everything is possible,
its impossible that any province in the Netherlands is better as Groningen,
thats just not possible ;)
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Post by: Kiryan on November 13, 2009, 21:16:45 pm
 :cry:
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Post by: Lionel Valdes on November 29, 2009, 12:12:50 pm
I dont know you , but don't leave ! SAPD needs more lifes protectors
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